*...* How do you tell someone(not a close friend) nicely to mind their own business? How about fuck off!
The following is a rough dialog of what happened to me on various occasions.
inquisitive person: So, aren't you gonna go back to church?
Me:: i'm thinking about it
Inquisitive person: you're thinking about it?
Me: yep
Inquisitive person: what's the reason you haven't gone back?
Me: I don't wanna talk about it
Inquisitive person: I think you should talk about it
Me: why?
Inquisitive person: because I wanna know...
Me: ...
Okay? I get that you're concerned and but seriously, there is a line that shouldn't be crossed. When someone says they don't want to talk about something why they fuck do you keep bothering them hoping that they'll eventually talk?
It's people like these should be nailed to a cross and thrown in the ocean.
I honestly think its alright to ask questions but sometimes people get carried away and don't know when they're approaching that zone where the person being questioned is inclined to express their displeasure with the interrogation. So, at this point someone like myself would turn to the person and say “leave me the fuck alone,thank you.”
I've been questioned by various people who aren't particularly close to me about various things that I generally don't want to talk about with just about anyone. And the part that pisses me off the most is that they say retarded things like “I think you're hiding something from me.” Well duh, its not fucking rocket science. And since you're so intelligent, did you ever think that it may be something that you're not entitled to know about?
Another day at school, this noob who associates with my friends decides that he's gonna play match-maker and so he picks out a target (a girl I know) and fires a barrage of personal questions at her asking stuff like if she has a boyfriend and who she likes, etc. Note: The girl doesn't even talk to this noob. So after all those questions, she comes to me complaining about the barrage of questions...*Sigh*. It's like some people don't get it...Stop being fucking inquisitive! It ain't cool and doesn't get you anywhere with people.
Here's a rough idea of what happened at school one day while I'm sitting in the computer lab.
Inquisitive d00d: what you looking at online?
Me: Just some random stuff
Girl A (the target and also my friend) is at the door that's in front of the general area where i'm sitting
Inquisitive d00d: *calls the girl's name loudly*
Me: ...
Girl A: *frowns*
Inquisitive d00d waits until she's going to get her bag and then he goes and puts his arm around her and is talking to her
Me: he doesn't get it...
A few hours after that, she messages me on MSN about what happened in the lab. And she's thinking I had something to do with it. Wtf? If only people would mind their own fucking business then that would be less headaches for others.
Okay, so you want to be a savior or all-around good person for people and you probably think its alright to “interrogate” others who you may see at school, work, church or wherever but not everyone likes that. So please, do everyone a favor and mind your own fucking business,k thx bye.
Note: I have no problems when people are genuinely concerned but there's a limit to how far things should be taken and this limit varies depending on the type of person.
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-xerosai
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2 comments:
rofl.. but its true, some people are really annoying like that. they wanna know something concerning u, and when u dont give them an answer what they want, they start nagging u more and more hoping that u will get fed up and answer them.. well dem wi get a answer yes "f**k off and mind u own business!!" lol
I really would like to meet u, u must be the most difficult person to deal with. Are u ever okay with anything?
Why aren't you going to church btw?
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